Where is the best place to pick up an honest, non-sl*tty girl in Bakersfield?
Mike G asked:
For a relationship, not just a booty call. Assuming you’ve just completed college and work where there are not many girls. And religious events are out of the question. Bars/clubs are usually filled with sluts. So where??
oh, and can you provide details of where?
like “speed dating” ive only seen that on tv, never even heard of anyone ever doing it in real life.
For a relationship, not just a booty call. Assuming you’ve just completed college and work where there are not many girls. And religious events are out of the question. Bars/clubs are usually filled with sluts. So where??
oh, and can you provide details of where?
like “speed dating” ive only seen that on tv, never even heard of anyone ever doing it in real life.
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who want’s a NON sl*tty one?
Comment by Richard G — March 27, 2011 @ 1:21 pm
Try speed dating, it has gotten really popular.
Comment by meagan m — March 29, 2011 @ 11:47 pm
at the grocery store near the fruit and vegetables
Comment by Samantha — April 1, 2011 @ 9:12 am
volunteer or community service!
Comment by haasahhh — April 4, 2011 @ 10:00 pm
Online is a good place. Yahoo personals is pretty sucessful.
Comment by ryan c — April 6, 2011 @ 1:28 pm
In a library, a grocery store… anywhere. Best bet is a club where you share common interests. Good luck!
Comment by Paul H — April 11, 2011 @ 8:41 pm
Not church. Those girls tend to be the kind you want to avoid. Friends, Work and on-line dating are your best options
Comment by keith s — April 14, 2011 @ 11:25 am
At the Convent!
Comment by joyceeleann — April 19, 2011 @ 9:30 am
Library, volunteering at community centers, museums…
Comment by tiff21xy — April 20, 2011 @ 5:56 am
Try a forign country! Very hard to find in the USA
Comment by Bear Naked — April 21, 2011 @ 8:05 am
Lots of nice women in bars. You’re limiting your self.
Comment by toogethr — April 21, 2011 @ 10:02 am
Not sure. But could you tell ME where you have BEEN? LOL
Comment by nor2006 — April 22, 2011 @ 2:11 pm
do some volunteer work. blood drives, food kitchens, whatever floats your boat.
Comment by CBecko — April 23, 2011 @ 5:14 am
Why not try the City pound at least you know you’ll get a hot bitch.
Comment by Perth Tink — April 23, 2011 @ 8:00 pm
Church social. Also check out local crime watch meetings and volunteer fire house social events. They’re out there.
Comment by sir id a lot — April 25, 2011 @ 4:17 pm
grocery stores!
Comment by mica — April 26, 2011 @ 11:50 pm
Go to a coffee shop, you might find somebody who’s all spun out on caffiene but she probably won’t be too much of a slut.
Comment by Mel — April 29, 2011 @ 3:35 pm
what is a slutty girl in your eyes because it may not be to another.
and if you think that “slutty girls” as you call them only hang out at bars and clubs and nice girls hang out in boring places you are hoplessly misinformed.
Comment by goldlust74 — April 29, 2011 @ 5:25 pm
First, do not use the words ‘pick up’, secondly, make friends first then you will find someone. Our society is so filled with sex these days that the ‘dating’ scene is now only about getting laid. You need to work on friendships first, anything more should develope naturally, otherwise all you will find are sluts.
Comment by Kristina H — April 30, 2011 @ 6:40 pm
internet, i guess, markets, shopping mall it depend if it in your fate then no one can stop you for seeing her or meeting her
Comment by maya — May 3, 2011 @ 4:12 am
This might sound funny, but I did it and it worked, Try a online dating site. This really opens the doors to women around you who are single and looking, just make sure you tell them that you’re looking for a relationship. I wouldn’t tell you which one is good, because there are so many for each person.
Comment by slyshewolf — May 5, 2011 @ 11:47 am
i like slutty
are you sure you want a girl?
Comment by the bad seed — May 7, 2011 @ 7:35 pm
If you quit trying to find someone you may be surprised if one finds you… I found the love of my life at a place that we mutually worked at… but I had totally given up on the idea of finding anyone….. Good luck to you.
Comment by Alisha S — May 10, 2011 @ 11:20 am
Change your approach. You can’t “pick up” someone for a relationship. Join some clubs, go to parties, whatever it takes to meet new people. Make friends with the girls, and then you’re on your way to a relationship.
If you’re really having trouble meeting girls, take some classes that would have a lot of women in them. Like a dance class, or yoga or something like that.
Comment by Victoria — May 13, 2011 @ 8:25 am
Back in your home town where else cause you everyone and what they did.Don’t have to much high standards cause you sound like one.not to offend you anyone agree?
Comment by Tino — May 16, 2011 @ 2:00 am
through friends try excepting all invitations that come your way. For example going to the mall, the movies a football game a friends gathering. The library go with any excuse to find a book, just go everywhere where your invited were you know obviously there won’t be slutty girls.
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Comment by Puddy — May 19, 2011 @ 7:13 pm
there is no such place for a honest girls, they’re everywhere you just have look for them…start with conversation and characters that impresses you…it takes time..
Comment by Esprit — May 21, 2011 @ 10:12 am
Stop looking so hard! That’s when you can’t find someone.
The more mystic she has about her,,,,the sluttier she is!!
Comment by hotkitten — May 22, 2011 @ 12:05 am
Everyone is reversing their patterns now. You will definitely find sluts in church. It didn’t used to be that way but it’s reality now. Community service…girls want to be gangbanged to cut short a few hours their judge sentenced them. The best place would really be online places like Y!Answers. There’s plenty of respectable ladies here. If you like what someone has to say then im her or email her and strike up a conversation…. See I hadn’t read any comments yet and ryan c recommended Y!Personals there’s another one.
Comment by Eldra W — May 22, 2011 @ 3:54 pm
Travel to another country, visit my city for instance
Comment by petra — May 24, 2011 @ 1:52 am
you are weird
Comment by hola chica — May 26, 2011 @ 12:41 pm
Don’t go to clubs and pubs. They are full of women who wear tarty clothes an drink like fish and degrade themselves.
You can usually tell by what a girl wears and if you are lucky enough to know her then by the way she acts.
Dark hair, covered up, nice looking, no tan. If you see one walking around and you think she looks classy find an excuse to talk to her.
Here’s how to tell: You ask her for her number if she gives it really easily then no, if she likes the look of you and gives it easily still no, if she likes the look of you and gives you reason to think she is interested but says that she doesn’t normally give her number like this and it’s strange yes (good if you see her again and tough if you don’t).
But having said that the only girl I know who isn’t a desperate slut and looks nice and classy is me! So have you got a pen there? (Only kidding girls don’t go giving me jip).
Comment by NewmansOwn — May 27, 2011 @ 4:32 am
There seems to be some underlying problems here to me.
1. You just finished college and you are asking this question now? What did you do when you were at college?
2. Why are religious events out of the question? Are you an athiest? If so I’m sure there are clubs for that.
3. If the bars you go to are usually filled with sluts maybe you might question why you are going there. What you also might look at is why do you feel you can make the assumption that the girls there are sluts. And, what makes you qualified to judge other people like you are doing.
You have to really look at the question you have just asked here and ask yourself “do I really know what I am looking for?”
Comment by ike11754 — May 29, 2011 @ 7:48 pm
Oui c’est pas facile de répondre aux questions quand on ne sait pas très bien parler anglais, tu sais. Hope my answer will help you !
Comment by Melanie — June 1, 2011 @ 10:55 am
Are you GAY?!! I have found that most straight men LOVE a nice honest hard working slutttty girl for a long term relationship!
Comment by slutttt — June 4, 2011 @ 10:54 pm