How do I start flirting again in my relationship?
K Rocks asked:
I have been in a relationship going on 5 years. I asked a question earlier about how to get my bf to be more affectionate and someone said try flirting. I realized I don’t flirt anymore and I think I should start and its a way to spice things up a bit. So how do I flirt? Anyone have any examples? Seriously, I really need tips!
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I have been in a relationship going on 5 years. I asked a question earlier about how to get my bf to be more affectionate and someone said try flirting. I realized I don’t flirt anymore and I think I should start and its a way to spice things up a bit. So how do I flirt? Anyone have any examples? Seriously, I really need tips!
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Well since you really don’t flirt very often, I would say start off small. That way it feels very natural for you and you’ll be more comfortable. For instance, change the way you kiss your bf instead of the regular little peck….grab the bottom of his lip just a little. (Don’t bite it) See how he reacts. Oh, I like this one…now this is a little more risky…but fun. If your laying in the bed watching tv together, instead of being side by side…sit side ways like an “L”….take you foot and kinda put it inbetween his legs….don’t even look at him…keep watching tv…this will make it seem like your not even doing it on purpose…then slowly move your leg back and forth…at first he might think it’s annoying…but when he realize your rubbing his crotch..believe me he will stop complaining….so I hope this helps…and of course stay safe and have fun.
Comment by Baby Girl — June 26, 2009 @ 7:17 am
Follow these tips:
1. Communicate: Talk to your partner about sexual problems and feelings you may have to see how you can work them out together.EX: If you have a desire to use sex toys, you should share this with him or her
2. Avoid arguments: Choose your battles to have more positive feelings towards your partner.
3. Think positively about sex: Don’t think of sex as a chore, but instead as a fun and loving experience that you can share.
4. Spend time together: Get away from the hectic pace of life and just have fun together to get your spark back.
5. Show affection: Outside of the bedroom, show affection to your partner, and you’ll be more attracted to them sexually.
6. Do something new: Introduce a little novelty into your lives together, and you’ll produce dopamine, a chemical that helps fuel sex drive.
7. Take a vacation: Sometimes the hectic pace of daily life can get in the way of sex, so step out of your usual routine to spice things up.
8. Take a deep breath: The scent of your partner’s sweat can be a booster for your sex drive.
9. Go out on a date: Support your emotional connection by going on a date, and focus on building your relationship.
10. Share responsibilities: If you’re not having sex because you or your partner is burned out or too tired, learn to more evenly balance your responsibilities between you.
Comment by Blake — June 26, 2009 @ 10:52 pm