How much flirting is too much from your partner to others?
BASTION de la BASTIONE asked:
At what point has your sig other crossed the line with his/her flirting?
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At what point has your sig other crossed the line with his/her flirting?
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Well, i would imagine that flirting when i’m in the same room would be pretty bad, but idk – i’m free from worrying about such things because i don’t have a “significant other” at this point in time.
Comment by Gorkamorka!!! — June 25, 2009 @ 4:57 pm
After almost crashing the car because he was watching a pretty lady cross the road.
I draw the line at that.
Comment by Jay — June 27, 2009 @ 5:23 am
Blatant attention whoring is just plain obnoxious, it would grate on my nerves if he were constantly trying to be the center of attention. If my husband began flirting with someone else I would show him the door, because theres a large difference between being friendly, and showing an over interest in someone else.
Comment by Bonzai Betty — June 28, 2009 @ 5:20 am
When she’s discussing aborting the baby with HIM rather than with ME, I know that the flirting has gone way overboard…
Comment by Know It All — June 28, 2009 @ 7:32 am
From what I understand according to different women:
A woman may flirt as much as she wants with who ever she wants because she’s only “having fun”.
A man is not allowed to flirt because he’s “cheating with his eyes”.
Comment by allornothing — June 28, 2009 @ 3:31 pm
When it goes from being verbal to physical.
Comment by lackluster — July 1, 2009 @ 8:13 am
Any amount of flirting isn’t ok. To have any kind of intimacy with anyone other than the one you’re supposed to be intimate with….To me is cheating.
Funny how “Innocent flirting” is only innocent when your partner isn’t around to see it
Comment by boodle — July 2, 2009 @ 9:54 am
Any. Same goes for me. Flirting at all crosses the line. We’re married. We aren’t available. Why play with fire?
Comment by Blue-Eyed Christian — July 3, 2009 @ 7:26 am
Any at all. If you want to be my girl, you’ve got to focus. Otherwise, you’re out.
Comment by Voice of Reality — July 3, 2009 @ 12:08 pm
We both flirt.
The trust is there, we’re completely committed, but we’re not fucking dead.
To think your partner won’t find someone else attractive is ridiculous. So if you know that love and fidelity doesn’t negate attraction, why not enjoy yourself as an individual, too?
We flirt in front of one another, or apart, neither of us has any issues with it. We have our own boundaries, so far so good, never been crossed.
Neither of us have any tolerance for jealousy, and whenever we’ve felt it, we knew there was something else going on and dealt with that.
Comment by am1432 — July 5, 2009 @ 4:18 pm
Okay. My husband and I are probably BOTH the two most jealous people on Earth. Through years of loving trust and reading great books and temper control we have come to be better.
So NUMBER ONE, we would never do a whole lot of flirting with other people.
But if you are asking what would TICK ME OFF…WELL… it would be:
- overtly staring at another woman
- flirting with another woman IN FRONT OF ME
- getting another woman’s phone number
- texting another woman and/or emailing her flirtatiously
- sexually flirting with a woman on a social networking site
I can honestly say my husband doesn’t do this kind of stuff (except for the occasional stare of women with extremely large behinds) so I can’t personally complain.
Comment by soulflower — July 7, 2009 @ 3:18 pm
Flirting is behaving in such a way to arouse or show sexual interest. It’s making romantic or sexual overtures.
No amount of flirting is acceptable to either of us.
Comment by Molly B — July 10, 2009 @ 10:41 am