Claudia F asked:
Hi, there’s this guy at college and we are really good mates, I don’t have a crush on him (well I don’t think I do) but I always find myself flirting with him, I can’t help it I just automatically do it! I know most girls flirt with most people but I never I repeat NEVER flirt with people. I was wondering if anyone had any suggestions to what’s going on with me!
Thanks
Claudii x
You woke up. Flirting is fun.
Comment by Robert M — June 25, 2009 @ 8:14 am
Hey Sweetness, Lean towards my screen a bit. I got things to talk about.
Comment by The Finger — June 26, 2009 @ 4:05 pm
you just do :]
Comment by ? Naughty but Nice ? — June 28, 2009 @ 5:12 pm
You probably just feel comfortable with this guy. You don’t need to fancy him, I flirt with loads of guys I don’t fancy, not in a slutty way or anything. Just in a sort conversational way lol. Don’t stress babe, you’re just growing up (:
Comment by capturethisvoice — June 29, 2009 @ 6:58 am
Its natural for girls to do that (i think), and if your single its definatly the right thing to do! the way i see it, its that you dont want to be single anymore so you do it the every time you see a guy. you dont care who it is, you just want a guy to love (be sure the guy likes you too)!!
Comment by black anime cat123 — June 29, 2009 @ 8:28 pm
maybee its just because you feel you can trust him and tell him thingss. hess just a closee friend of yours. maybee onee day your’ll start to likee him . nothinggs goingg on with you!
just be happyy and flirt all you likee, but nott be sluttyy if you get me (: xx
Comment by tinkerr. — July 1, 2009 @ 2:50 am
You feel comfortable with him.
Comment by Kate N. — July 1, 2009 @ 8:30 pm
Ahahaha. Well, sometime we are just physically attracted to people! It’s a subconscious thing. Something we aren’t even aware of. It doesn’t mean we even like them as a person or as a possible relationship(: And come on, sometimes flirting is just fun! Especially with a person you’re comfortable with. Which, I’m sure you are. Considering how close you say you two are! Though, you have to be careful. You don’t want to send out any mixed signals his way. But, you know, maybe next time you’re around him (flirting), think about what you’re doing! Is it really so crazy that you like this guy? I mean, friendships have a way of growing and changing over time. Something could have happened that you weren’t totally aware of!
Comment by Kate B — July 4, 2009 @ 12:03 pm