Why do I seem to attract older women?
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I always seem to attract older women in their 30′s upwards.
I always seem to attract older women in their 30′s upwards.
I am in my twenties and have been told I am handsome/good-looking by a few women but I don’t believe them!
What I want to know is: Why do I seem to attract older woman?
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i hope you’re not complaining get those cougars
Comment by Young Money — May 29, 2009 @ 6:35 pm
its ur likeing
Comment by maali j — June 1, 2009 @ 3:39 am
you must attract the motherly type, you give off a certain vibe that says “Hey I need nurturing, take care of me” cut the apron strings bud.
Comment by Inyourwindows — June 4, 2009 @ 2:03 am
maybe its cause the way you look.
Comment by hey hey hey — June 4, 2009 @ 8:37 am
The answer is probaly that you are very mature and older women are suprised. You probaly just act old.
Comment by Awesome Girl — June 5, 2009 @ 1:32 pm
I don’t know but I wish I did, if you figure it out let me know!
Comment by Nate — June 8, 2009 @ 7:07 am
you may just be plain attractive to women period. but cougars are damn aggressive dude. no playing games for them so maybe that’s why you seem to only attract them. 20′s girls like to play the b.s. games and are coquettish…
Comment by elleeeeemm — June 9, 2009 @ 2:13 pm
You got what older women want. So um, where can I find you?
Comment by goddess — June 10, 2009 @ 7:18 am
LOL older ladies always flirt w/ me to, theres been a few times i’ve been gambling and older women would be like you don’t look 21 and smile at me, or when i buy cigs hmm 18 with a quick smile….it’s hilarious, but i think older women just find young men attractive…like that boy next door cute, or the kid that cleans my pool lol
ladies help me w/ my question
Comment by John — June 12, 2009 @ 11:47 am
Well many women go for younger men because men their age aren’t in awe over them and younger men often like to talk to their guy friends bragging about having an older woman.
Comment by Alec — June 13, 2009 @ 1:16 am
maybe you look older?!
Comment by PokerFace — June 14, 2009 @ 1:31 am
Because at their age they have acquired a taste for the finer things in life. =)
Comment by argize — June 14, 2009 @ 11:16 am
My fiance has the same thing happen to him a lot. Not always so much attention from early-mid twenties girls in our age group, but definitely from older women. I believe it is a combination of a few factors. There have been studies done on the way women subconsciously perceive different male facial features. The strong square jawlines make women think “SEX”, the rounder softer faces tend to make us think “FATHER/HUSBAND”.
Attitude makes a huge difference as well. The rowdy ‘frat-boy’ types don’t usually appeal to a true cougar, as they can be too much trouble–too loud and unpredictable. A calmer, more even attitude hints at a maturity and even-tempered approach to the world at large.
Also, you say you have been told you are a good looking guy, but you don’t believe them. That means you are not full of yourself. That is part of the attitude that attracts a more mature crowd. As long as you aren’t wallowing in self-esteem issues, you probably aren’t attracting those ‘mothering’ types a few other folks who answered guessed at.
Older women are done playing most of those silly games, it doesn’t mean they are no longer flirtatious and coy, they probably don’t care to jerk guys around anymore. They know what they want. A good guy, respectful, attractive, intelligent, friendly, and being young and able to go for hours in the sack certainly doesn’t hurt
Comment by redirishfairie — June 16, 2009 @ 2:18 pm
First of all a woman in her thirties is not a cougar,.dumb**ses,…….they most likely like you because you might be carrying yourself a certain way,.that They “like”.Second,.you have low self esteem,.so i don’t see how that’s attractive.Then again that’s probably why they go for you! lol.Like saving an injured bird or some crap.Your easy to them hehehe…but all in all maybe the way you dress,.carry yourself and treat women.The end,.deal with it dork!
Comment by Ima tell it like it is... — June 17, 2009 @ 7:25 am