How do I attract women?
Micro A asked:
I’m 20 years old and in college. My school is very big (40,000+ students) and I can’t believe I haven’t gotten any yet. Don’t get me wrong, I’m open to relationships, but I haven’t really mustered up the courage to actively seek out women. First off, I’m into the feminine girls, but not too feminine…the type that likes to go to the coffee shops and read a book. An independent woman. How do I give off hints? I really inexperienced when it comes to flirting/picking up girls. Any tips? Be specific.
Wear a rainbow pin and short skirt with no undies.
Comment by honest answers — April 11, 2009 @ 8:35 pm
Coffee Shops and Libraries to start off since you are interested in that type of thing. You wouldn’t be at the club or in the mall looking for someone with a since of standards so go after what you know best.
No one can tell you how to flirt but if you are seriously lacking in that department and can’t find the confidence to go after what you want, find a wing woman/man.
Comment by shorty_frm_ga — April 11, 2009 @ 9:59 pm
Well, at your age is not difficult. Whenever you see an attractive girl, you go and begin to talk about anything you want and see how she reacts. In college there are many opportunities to meet other people
Sometimes we are a little shy about this. Try to be clean shaved, well groomed, appropriate clothes, good cologne. Girls like it when the guy has a neat appearance. Offer to study together
This is as old as humanity. You might ask your father for advice. That is what I did and what my son did when we began to talk to girls
Comment by Don Camilo — April 13, 2009 @ 2:07 am
join your campus gsa or similiar originziation there will be tons of kids around and flyers to LGBTQ places to frequent…then just be yourself
Comment by mystic stranger — April 15, 2009 @ 5:46 pm
I like coffee shops and reading, date meeeeee…….! Lol.
But seriously, flirting will come to you naturally when you build up a bit of confidence. Start with a smile and then maybe a ‘hi’ when you see someone attractive and work up to talking to a girl.
Good luck
Comment by ManchesterLove — April 18, 2009 @ 1:19 pm