Are eyes what attract women the most in a man?
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I am a woman and I’ve never understood this.
I am a woman and I’ve never understood this.
I judge a man (or even a woman) by the whole package.
I consider that eyes are not enough to have a relevant influence.in someone’s overall looks.
Well, in a woman, they may have more of a influence than in a man, because some cosmetics contribute to enhance the look.
Furthermore, and speaking for me, you can just notice someone’s eyes when you are face-to-face with the person, and not if you are some steps away.
I also hear some people say that you can see a bit of a man’s (and probably of a woman’s) personality from the eyes.
But I must say I don’t usually look people in the eyes (and I often don’t like people to look me in the eyes either).
I find that impolite and disturbing…
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umm yeah i like lots of guys and i love there eyes the most you can tell if their caring or whatever lol
Comment by Lizzie B — March 11, 2009 @ 11:27 pm
Definitley eyes are over-rated I don’t even really notice them , first thing I look for on a women are nice ass then maybe there smile.
Comment by P!MPDADDY — March 15, 2009 @ 4:44 am
It could be a culture and nurture thing about whether looking someone in the eye is disrespectful or disturbing.
It’s really a sort of gut instinct what you see if you look into someone’s eyes. Somehow a primal instinct allows (sometimes this is unfortunate when you are trying to say, mask your disgust for someone) us to sense what the person is feeling at that moment. Often, by this first sensing one tends to make judgement about the personality of the person. So it’s probably not entirely true that you can see a bit of a person’s personality from the eyes. More like you see what they feel and you make your own perception.
I’m a girl myself and it’s also the whole package that matters to me. If I were to judge my guy by his eyes, well the day I met him I’d have blinded him for the seemingly insolent look in his eyes and that’s not called attraction!
Comment by Winnie C — March 16, 2009 @ 12:28 pm
I, personally, love looking in a guy’s eyes. And I’m a female.
For me, I find eye contact to be a sign of openness and trust. If someone is looking directly at you, it’s usually a sign that they’re confident in what they’re saying and that they have nothing to hide.
It’s also a fairly intimate thing to do, because it means that your attention is on the person you’re looking at. Staring into someone’s eyes, being lost in someone’s eyes, being drawn into someone’s eyes — all of those are popular phrases from romance novels, and for a good reason. When someone is looking at you, and only you, it means that you are interesting enough to have their full attention.
Apart from that, I find green eyes incredibly attractive, but all bright-colored eyes in general catch my attention. I really do think that it’s possible to tell a lot about someone by how willing they are to look directly at you, and the way that they look at you, regardless of facial expression, can give away what they think about you or if they’re even listening to you at all.
For me, the eyes are definitely the most attractive part of a guy. A body can gain weight, skin can get discolored or wrinkled but eyes reflect the changes of the soul and stay beautiful as long as the person is beautiful.
Comment by Arconcyl — March 19, 2009 @ 11:37 pm
Direct eye contact is an indication of honesty. I’ve found if you absolutely have to size up a person (double quick) check the band across the eyes from the brows to the bridge of the nose. If it softens the overall expression of the face…you can trust. If the softness isn’t presence watch out. Eyes that attract men…Well, it is a fact, that men prefer woman who are interested in them and sending out sexual cueing. Regardless of their looks most often. men will choose an interested party rather than risk rejection!
Comment by bigbyone — March 23, 2009 @ 3:16 am