You say you’re not an ogre, but yet your “avatar” (I think that is what they call those little pictures, isn’t it?) has an angry contemptuous sneer that would do any sour-dispositioned, self-loathing ogre proud.
If you project yourself with that same attitude on the dating sites, I can see why no one except someone with very low self-esteem would respond. Ask yourself, HONESTLY, if you were a woman, would YOU be attracted to an image like that,or repelled by it?
Even if you are not using that same image in your online dating efforts, the same personality traits that led you to select it for use here are still going to show through in other ways.

Spend some time looking at the “avatars” you see on these questions and see what the images tell you about the people whom they are meant to stand for.
Which ones look like someone whose company you would enjoy?
Which ones look like someone whose company you would enjoy if you were a woman of the kind you say you want to attract?
When you have identified those, study them and see what it is about them that is positive and potentially attractive. Then see how you can incorporate those traits into your own image.

The kind of woman you are looking for would, most likely be attracted to a guy who is naturally cheerful, outgoing and projects a positive image. You are not going to catch a butterfly with soured bologna, you’re going to have to offer fresh nectar.

I think online or correspondence dating is always a jack-in-the-box.

No matter how you describe yourself or how you describe the person you’re looking for, you never know for sure what you will find…

Check out Men’s Health magazine and/or website. They’re always running articles on these kinds of topics. You can also learn about showing potential interests the best and most polished version of yourself (which may be part of the reason for the kind of women you are attracting).

In other words…. If you ain’t catching the kind of fish you like, change your fishing spot and change the bait you’re using.