How to attract women my age or older?
Gabe G asked:
I’m not being conceited or anything but i always get hit on my younger girls (17 or younger) It bothers me cause i want a girl who is my age or older i’m 21 btw. But some people do tell me i do look 19 rather than 21 could that be the reason? Need advice please.
Just be mature.
Comment by on fire — February 11, 2009 @ 2:15 am
dude little girls just like women are attracted but women hide it better than teens
Comment by Joey A — February 12, 2009 @ 6:25 pm
Well you are 21 now. There is one place you can go that only 21 years olds and above can go. Uh… Hint: You can drink there. Go there.
Comment by tad_naomi — February 13, 2009 @ 1:16 pm
act and dress more maturely
Comment by sweetie9872 — February 14, 2009 @ 6:11 am
ok, try to act mature around girls your age and make them trust you, perhaps you act impulsively around girls or you try too hard to impress them, that’s way you only attract younger women.
Comment by blue — February 16, 2009 @ 1:18 pm
why wouldnt you want a younger girl ? That should make you feel good. When your in your 30s youll want someone younger like in their 20s !
Comment by DomBby. — February 19, 2009 @ 5:58 pm
Joey A has the right idea…..us older woman are not so in your face when we are attracted to a guy…its called maturity
Comment by vic — February 21, 2009 @ 12:04 am
Cougars are everywhere.
Comment by bender0569us — February 23, 2009 @ 7:34 pm
just be mature and try to look older
Comment by black goku — February 26, 2009 @ 9:24 am
Be confident and be the aggressor. Older women like younger men but they’re afraid of being turned down. I had a friend that was 10 years younger than me and we use to have the most fun but he was the aggressor. A younger man makes an older woman feel good!! Be confident, kind and respectful. Go get them tiger!!
Comment by Sherry T — March 1, 2009 @ 2:53 pm
Go where the girls your age are. don’t hang out with teens.
Comment by candyapplecat — March 1, 2009 @ 9:29 pm
Maybe grow some facial hair? Wear more sophisticated clothing? Why not hit on some older women? You make the move, don’t wait for them to do the hitting on.
I respect the fact that you’re not falling for the youngin’s, its not worth the risk of getting yourself in trouble. And it is great going out and having a beer legally with a date.
Comment by Pirate Girl — March 3, 2009 @ 1:38 am
Just depends on how confident you are
Comment by Mr Kipling — March 6, 2009 @ 11:04 am
When I was forty I got together with my guy who was 18. We are going on 5 years and live together with my two kids. So there is hope for you. Get a book called older woman younger men. And be mature dont expect her to take care of you or pay for things. Be respectful of her dont treat her like a mom. Good luck!
Comment by TRISHMATT — March 7, 2009 @ 6:59 pm
send me a pic ok
Comment by Hotstuff P — March 8, 2009 @ 7:54 am