Do You Want to Attract Girls? Then Do This!
Ryan Clauson teaches provides a tip on how college men can display to women that they are strong and confident without being arrogant and cocky.
Ryan Clauson, a sophomore at Northeastern University, has released a two-hour long audio recording called Listen Act Attract, designed specifically for aiding college men stuck in a rut in their search for the right woman.
“I want to help out guys,” Clauson said. “Women don’t realize that every guy is nervous when approaching a girl-any guy that says he’s not nervous is lying. There are different levels of being nervous but every guy gets it. It never really goes away and you always get that feeling. But it gets much reduced with this program.”
Clauson’s audio advice recording takes the dateless male from the moment of approaching a woman and starting up a conversation, to keeping the dialogue interesting in a way that makes her attracted to him. In this way, he believes the individual may better bridge the gap between the initial encounter to planning another time to hang out.
“There are a lot of books out there about dating, marriage and sex, but before you get to any of that stuff you have to learn, what do you do in the very beginning?” he said. “I give very specific examples and specific advice goes way beyond ‘Be confident and smile.’”
Although the audio recording officially launched March 1 of this year, the concept has been in the making for quite some time.
From early 2003 until late 2007, he researched all forms of communication, zeroing in on the attraction between men and women, consulting professors and experts and reading hundreds of books.
He estimates that he has also interacted with at least 2,000 college women over the past five years in order to weed out the stereotypes associated with males and the dating scene.
“I don’t want it to be this thing where guys are just using this bag of tricks,” he said. “It’s completely honest, ethical and completely upfront. The knowledge you learn about communication is going to help you with women and it’s also going to help you with your professors, your friends and your family.”
In addition, Clauson speaks to college students in seminars teaching these basic techniques of communication and how they relate to happiness.
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I noticed that when I was talking to her, when I did agree with her, she seemed to be quite about it, but when I disagreed and made fun of her opinions and statements and whatnot. She seemed to laugh.
Great advice, Ryan!.
Comment by XxXWAKEXxX — December 26, 2008 @ 4:51 pm
holy shit man thanks
Comment by loverofrunescape32 — December 27, 2008 @ 11:14 am
haha nice, I never noticed it, but I remember stuff like this happening all the time with me. Nice tip man, keep it up
Comment by TheBErogue — December 29, 2008 @ 12:46 pm
You can learn how to do this on my site and from my videos. Get my program for more advanced tools.
Comment by ListenActAttract — January 1, 2009 @ 12:24 am
You know it happens to me that I sit with a girl in an office and I want to attract her but I just don’t know what to say. The whole time I am just thinking of what to say. And nothing comes in my mind. I need some sentences to use to start the conversation.
Comment by ramin8029 — January 1, 2009 @ 3:48 pm
That’s why guys like me have to resort to the internet to watch all these videos to learn the secrets. These videos are helping me. The main problem is approach anxiety.
Comment by KingofZona — January 3, 2009 @ 12:18 am
This is good adice. I teach guys to do the same thing in reverse. Easy to relate when you break things down to their emotional level. You’re smart.
Comment by ListenActAttract — January 3, 2009 @ 3:08 pm
Men have been scared and nervous about approaching girls they don’t know for ever. Every man is. You might think men know what to do but they do not. I talk to good quality men every day and they are frustrated because they can’t meet girls and it’s hard as hell. I take great pride in what I do because I show men that there is a way to meet women that works and they can stop buying drinks and complimenting to death every girl they see because that has never worked and never will.
Comment by ListenActAttract — January 6, 2009 @ 8:26 am
I haven’t heard you address anything in these short clips that I wouldn’t assume the average man shouldn’t already have as a part of his character. Has the female attitude digressed that much that men no longer posses these qualities due to trying to accommodate them? I think that I’ve been paying so much, disgusted and shocked, attention to how females act in public that I’ve missed whats been happening to the males.
Comment by thegirl44 — January 9, 2009 @ 12:45 am
Oh, don’t get me wrong, I’ve enjoyed your videos, I’m just having a hard time understanding the need for them…and not from the male perspective. I think that I’m disgusted that women have become so shallow and self serving that men have to approach them like a ticking bomb that has to be placated. We are of the opposite sex, we’re supposed to jive with one another, this should happen naturally but it doesn’t seem to in this day and age, to the point that we have to seek other’s advice.
Comment by thegirl44 — January 9, 2009 @ 6:40 pm
I’m not sure what you are saying? I’m honestly glad you raised the point of quality of women vs quantity of women because so few people ever do and it’s something I have talked a great deal about. I actually think we agree with each other. We just did not understand each other.
Comment by ListenActAttract — January 10, 2009 @ 8:08 pm
“That’s a great point you raise and I’m glad that you did.” It saddens me that the average woman isn’t smart enough to see through that sort of rhetoric. You, however, should be very happy that the average woman isn’t too bright, it makes you money.
Comment by thegirl44 — January 12, 2009 @ 1:24 pm
That’s a great point you raise and I’m glad you did. So many “dating gurus” are all about the number of women they can get or their clients can get. Attracting lots of women means nothing to me. For myself, I only pursue women who are smart, funny, playful, beautiful, and confident. As you might imagine this is a very small number and the same could be said for guys who have these qualities. My point is, I teach guys to go for quality, that’s why my program is different.
Comment by ListenActAttract — January 14, 2009 @ 4:13 pm
I’d be interested to see the caliber of women that your program attracts, very interested.
Comment by thegirl44 — January 14, 2009 @ 6:42 pm
You are right, and being genuine is something I teach. But you fail to understand the problem many men face and what keeps them from being with the women they want. I only trust results and the reason men pay for my programs is for the simple fact that I am able to produce results again and again.
Comment by ListenActAttract — January 16, 2009 @ 8:49 pm
This girl’s favorite quality in the man that she married was that he was genuine, something that you might want to look into. If a man comes on to me in your over animated fashion, I know right away that our encounter has been rehearsed.
Comment by thegirl44 — January 18, 2009 @ 7:53 pm
“did this” is a little vague. If you tell me exactly what happened I can probably tell you what you did wrong.
-Ryan
Comment by ListenActAttract — January 21, 2009 @ 7:19 pm
i did this and got into a 50min fight with some girl..lol
Comment by punk2816460826 — January 23, 2009 @ 8:07 am
what I love about you is you talk my language
…I was telling this girl I met on a date via bluepont in my cell that I use your tips and he said WOW
…hahahaha
Comment by tomhanes1 — January 26, 2009 @ 4:13 pm
u are damn right man!
Comment by rise313 — January 26, 2009 @ 8:10 pm
This man speaks the truth. Most women don’t want a pushover
Comment by fa272 — January 27, 2009 @ 8:42 pm
I explain everything in detail on my website, check it out.
Best,
Ryan
Comment by ListenActAttract — January 29, 2009 @ 4:12 pm
what research?
Comment by pu186 — February 2, 2009 @ 12:56 am
No. Goal is not to argue. Goal is to be a real man who stands up for himself. When a girl sees that you are not so needy, and that you stand by what you say, she trusts you more, and becomes much more attracted. Just have to test this out to see it works.
Comment by ListenActAttract — February 3, 2009 @ 9:41 pm
hmm… really? doesn’t that encourage argument thus driving the girl away?
Comment by josephhandsome1013 — February 4, 2009 @ 5:02 pm